Do you know what one of the most powerful words you can say to a man is?
It’s the word WANT. That’s right, WANT.
You see? Men naturally want to please us. They enjoy making us happy, being our hero.
When you tell a man what you want, (really when you tell anyone what you want) you’re giving him the blueprint, the roadmap on how to please you. Feel comfortable telling him what you want.
When you tell a man what you want, be careful not to put it on him to make it happen. In other words, you tell him what you want in your life out of a relationship. You can tell him that you like him very much but if it’s not with him then you know you will have this with someone else because it’s what you want and you’re not settling. Insert what your “this” is in the above sentence. Whatever it is that you want out of a relationship, say it there.
At this point, he will decide if he can make you happy, the way you described it to him. At this point you have given him permission to to step up and be THAT man for you, to please you, to make you happy. With that said, men are competitive beings. If he’s into you, he’s not going to want you to go meet that someone else. And if he decides that this is not what he wants, then you have given him permission to fall away from your life so you can move on and attract what it is you want in your life.
Say what you mean… Get what you want!