So how do you become a woman that men desire? How do you become so irresistible that you have plenty of suitors to choose from? How do you become a woman of value?
Well, let’s compare the dating world to an auction. Whether you’ve been to eBay or a local auction, you know that the more people that want the item, the more bids and the more bids makes the value of the item go up! Plain and simple.
What does that mean for you? It means, you DO NOT give a man exclusivity UNTIL he’s talking about dating with the intention of marriage. Until then, you are just DATING! You DO NOT fall into the trap of being his “girlfriend” if he’s not EXCLUSIVELY dating you and you only for the purpose of weighing each other’s pros and cons, for the possibility of lifelong commitment.
So, until HE is exclusively yours, you date! Have a rotation of dates with different men and YES, you tell them about it if comes up in conversation. You will treat these men equally. I didn’t say sleep with these men. I said, DATE. When the ONE knows that you’re out there exploring your options, he will rise and want to “bid” the highest.
Whether you consider yourself a salesperson or not, you are selling every day. You sell your kids on what clothes to wear, what to eat, what movies to watch. You sell your boyfriend, the idea of that gift you want for your birthday and then he goes gets it. You sell yourself every day. So it can only benefit you to fall in love with your product, YOURSELF. Get to know your audience and who your “target market”, audience TYPE OF MAN, is.
This is really deep and this blog post is just a basic overview of the You Can Attract Mr. Right Program launching in June. STAY TUNED!!!